WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING HER

In Life, every married women deserves to be cared for and treated fairly. The following reviews will help correct your wife amicably without hurting her:

1. LOWER THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE: Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid or your child. Correct her with a calm tone in love.
2. DO IT IN LOVE: Correction should be done in love. If done in any other way, it turns to criticism and condemnation.
3. DON’T CRITICIZE:
   Correction and criticism are never the same.
   Husband A says, “What manner of food is this?” “Is this popcorn or fried rice?” “How I wish I married a more sensible wife with better home training and who can cook better.”
   Husband B says, “Sweetheart this rice is too salty and dry, unlike the one you did yesterday. I think the salt level should be reduced any other time because of our health.”
   Husband A criticized, Husband B corrected his wife in love.
4. PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT
5. DON’T CORRECT HER IN PRESENCE OF YOUR CHILDREN
6. DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC: it does not show you as a gentleman. It will also affect her self-esteem.
7. AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER: Real men don’t do that.
8. DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN
9. AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES: Stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.
10. DON’T ATTACK HER: Don’t say, “And you call yourself a woman?” “Virtuous women don’t behave like this, you better change before I change you.” This is very wrong, don’t do it.
11. DON’T ATTACK HER DIGNITY: Don’t say, “You don’t behave like someone with sense, do you think at all?”
12. DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD: Men are fond of attacking their wives’ womanhood anytime they make mistakes. Don’t say things like, “I don’t blame you, you are just a woman” “Women are not known to be wise”
13. GIVE A HELPING HAND: The best way to correct is to lead by example. Step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in front of the television correcting what goes on in the kitchen.
    Wives are doing a great job.

Appreciate yours and support her to be a better wife and good mother to your children.

God bless you for reading.